“Fake it till you make it” shouldn’t be compared to living a fake life – Adaeze UC

 

I draw a picture from the above headline,”Fake it till you make it”

“Fake it till you make it” is an English aphorism which suggests that by imitating confidence, competence, and an optimistic mindset, a person can realize those qualities in their real life- Wikipedia.

The above headline is being misused each day by people who do not understand what it means.

“Fake it till you make it” shouldn’t be compared to living a fake life.

Illustrating from the fact; They are people who package classically to get a good impression from people at their first approach. It’s either to get a good job or to have a contract relationship with the person. They might not have the money in their account to do so but they really went out of their way to borrow clothes, shoes, belts, handbags or cars in order to give a good impression about themselves. Are we going to say that these ones are living fake lives?

No! I will say that they are being optimistic and competent towards their dreams.

They are people who borrow more of these things to just impress the public and make the impatient ones feel like they are born with one hand or nature has only a group of people, it’s being fair to.

These kinds of people can make their followers move out of their own way to another person’s way in search of the classic life they display before them.

A friend of mine gave me a ride on my way back from work sometime ago. We got to an event center and he stopped. He told me that he wanted to meet some group of people who have been calling him for a magazine launch and he won’t take long. I was left alone in his car and It was almost getting dark but I wasn’t bothered because I know I will get to my destination unharmed.

After a few minutes, a group of girls arrived at the venue with Tricycle. After the Tricycle man left, I noticed that some people were running around the car. I sat up immediately to observe what was going on. I saw these girls moving from one flashy car to another flashy car to snap pictures. For more than 10 minutes, they were moving to different cars to snap pictures each. It amazed me a lot because that was my first time witnessing such.

I turned on my phone and suddenly, they noticed someone was in the car and they quickly rounded up and left.

You can imagine people who came to an event centre with a Tricycle, going home with a picture of them beside flashy cars, even the owners of the cars never knew what transpired between their cars and those girls.

Probably, when they get home and post those pictures, some girls will see it and feel Unlucky while some guys will feel that their level doesn’t meet up with theirs again. They (girls) will feel that they are cursed never to meet guys with flashy cars.

Faking it for the right reasons can change one for the better, but faking it for the wrong reason can create all kinds of problems for one with no one to help at the end.

The truth is that you can’t pretend too long to be who you are not or created to be.

fake that behavior with conviction in order to get there, then eventually the power of habit will kick in.

Just believe fully in yourself and the reason you’re doing it in the first place and not to influence others negatively.

 

First Posted and Written on 19th November, 2019 by Adaeze UC

© FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE

 

 

I draw a picture from the above headline,”Fake it until you make it”

 

 

“Fake it till you make it” is an English aphorism which suggests that by imitating confidence, competence, and an optimistic mindset, a person can realize those qualities in their real life- Wikipedia.

 

 

The above headline is being misused each day by people who do not understand what it means.

 

 

“Fake it till you make it” shouldn’t be compared to living a fake life.

 

 

Illustrating from the fact; They are people who package classically to get a good impression from people at their first approach. It’s either to get a good job or to have a contract relationship with the person. They might not have the money in their account to do so but they really went out of their way to borrow clothes, shoes, belts, handbags or cars in order to give a good impression about themselves. Are we going to say that these ones are living fake lives?

 

No! I will say that they are being optimistic and competent towards their dreams.

 

 

They are people who borrow more of these things to just impress the public and make the impatient ones feel like they are born with one hand or nature has only a group of people, it’s being fair to.

 

These kinds of people can make their followers move out of their own way to another person’s way in search of the classic life they display before them.

 

 

A friend of mine gave me a ride on my way back from work sometime ago. We got to an event center and he stopped. He told me that he wanted to meet some group of people who have been calling him for a magazine launch and he won’t take long. I was left alone in his car and It was almost getting dark but I wasn’t bothered because I know I will get to my destination unharmed.

 

 

After a few minutes, a group of girls arrived at the venue with Tricycle. After the Tricycle man left, I noticed that some people were running around the car. I sat up immediately to observe what was going on. I saw these girls moving from one flashy car to another flashy car to snap pictures. For more than 10 minutes, they were moving to different cars to snap pictures each. It amazed me a lot because that was my first time witnessing such.

 

I turned on my phone and suddenly, they noticed someone was in the car and they quickly rounded up and left.

 

 

You can imagine people who came to an event centre with a Tricycle, going home with a picture of them beside flashy cars, even the owners of the cars never knew what transpired between their cars and those girls.

 

Probably, when they get home and post those pictures, some girls will see it and feel Unlucky while some guys will feel that their level doesn’t meet up with theirs again. They (girls) will feel that they are cursed never to meet guys with flashy cars.

 

 

Faking it for the right reasons can change one for the better, but faking it for the wrong reason can create all kinds of problems for one with no one to help at the end.

 

 

The truth is that you can’t pretend too long to be who you are not or created to be.

 

 

fake that behavior with conviction in order to get there, then eventually the power of habit will kick in.

 

Just believe fully in yourself and the reason you’re doing it in the first place and not to influence others negatively.

 

 

 

First Posted and Written on 19th November, 2019 by Adaeze UC 

 

 

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